My story
In my late twenties, I became a licensed psychotherapist and completed advanced training in couples therapy. This training helped me finally see my own relationship for what it was: beyond repair. After ending a five-year relationship, I found myself single at thirty-five and looking for love again. That’s when I had a major realization—up until then, I hadn’t been dating with marriage in mind.
Like many, my dating approach had been shaped by unhealed wounds, inherited family dynamics, and misguided advice from so-called dating experts. This led me into a few dysfunctional relationships, but I knew I didn’t want to keep repeating past mistakes. I wanted a lifelong partner, and at thirty-five, I felt I couldn’t wait around to stumble upon one. I needed a new approach to build a healthy, lasting relationship that would lead to marriage and a family.
As a therapist, I’d already guided many people toward finding love, helping them heal and build strong partnerships. I realized I could apply the same principles to my own life, distilling what worked for others and putting those insights into practice for myself. So, I did the work. I focused on healing past wounds, uncovering the patterns that had kept me stuck, and changing the self-concept that had shaped my relationships for so long. I started showing up authentically, with clarity on my values and a deeper understanding of what I needed in a partner. I let go of the need to "win over" anyone and instead prioritized honesty, respect, and genuine connection, both with myself and others.
With that shift, I found the love of my life. Together, we’ve built a relationship that’s deeply supportive, full of trust, and aligned with the life we both envision—a partnership reflecting the work I put into becoming my true self and seeking a true partner. It really is that simple: when you heal, recognize your patterns, and date with authenticity, you create the foundation for real, lasting love.
Now, through Match to Marriage, I help others find love using this same proven approach. If you’re ready to make these shifts and create a healthy, enduring partnership, I’m here to guide you every step of the way.
the TLDR
At 35, I realized my old dating habits weren’t leading me toward marriage. So, I transformed my entire approach, using evidence-based techniques I’d learned as a psychotherapist and coach. I did the inner work, healed past patterns, changed my habits—and met the love of my life. Now, I’m here to help you do the same!
My qualifications
Master’s in mental health counseling
Licensed psychotherapist
Advanced training in Gottman Method couples therapy, Relational LIfe couples therapy
My Core Values
Authenticity
Authenticity is at the heart of everything I do. Finding lasting love starts with being true to yourself—embracing who you are and what you genuinely need from a relationship. I encourage my clients to bring their full, unfiltered selves to our work together, creating a space where vulnerability and honesty lead to growth. This program isn’t about “performing” or adopting someone else’s idea of the ideal partner; it’s about discovering your own worth and attracting a partner who values and complements your true self.
Action-Oriented
Transformation happens when insight leads to action. My approach is designed to move you forward with concrete, achievable steps, so the clarity and healing we achieve translate directly into your dating life. While understanding your patterns and history is essential, I believe real change comes from applying this awareness in a practical way. I’m here to empower you to take action with confidence and create lasting shifts that bring you closer to a healthy, committed partnership.
Collaboration
Relationships are built on collaboration, and so is my work with clients. I approach our journey together as a partnership, where your insights and goals guide our progress. I bring expertise in emotional growth and relationship dynamics, and you bring the vision for the life and love you want to create. Together, we’ll chart a path that’s uniquely yours, with me supporting you every step of the way as you move toward a fulfilling, enduring relationship.
